Practical Advice for Parents: Curfews
 
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  Most teens dislike curfews. Feelings aside, rules about arriving home at a reasonable hour make good sense. Curfews bring greater safety and help teens learn to be responsible.

Some tips for curfews
  • Base a teen’s curfew on your family’s needs, instead of the curfew time in other families.
  • Set a curfew time by considering past ability to stay within time limits. If a 10 p.m. time is not kept, chances are an 11 p.m. curfew also will not be obeyed.
  • Keep curfews flexible, depending on the activity involved. A time that is too late for a school night may be too early for prom night.
  • If a teen plans to stay the night at a friend’s home, get in touch with the friend’s parents to discuss your curfew expectations.
  • Some communities establish and enforce curfews for children and teenagers. Find out if your community has a curfew law and the consequences for violating the curfew.
  • Be reasonable, but firm. Remember, negotiation skills are critical in many areas when dealing with teens.